Ladies stop fooling yourselves...please please please!

What is going on with the women of the world today; are we so desperate for attention that we are allowing the so call men in our lives to feed us lies, lies, lies and more lies. Why do I say that; because you know he's lying to you when you yourself feel something ain't right. Nobody have to tell you he's cheating or growing tired of you. Why is he always disappearing days after your paycheck or in the middle of the afternoon, not answering your texts and what's up with him spending the night over his friends or family house; you all have a bed, food to eat and plenty of entertainment, don't you. Can you honestly say that you believe a word he's saying? Why do you have to beg for attention? If this so call man cared anything for you then he would be more attentive to the point of boarder line jealousy. I mean that good jealousy where when other men look at you he's like a lion all over them, telling them to back up and give respect. He'll respect you with the love of God and make you his wife and the mother to his children; you and you alone. He'll do everything to please you and he'll be your best friend because all he'll want is you for breakfast, lunch, dinner and anything between. But when he is avoiding you and lying to you it's best to stop fooling yourself and let the light of truth shine in and then act accordingly and go your way with your head high and your pride in tact; remember you haven't done anything wrong but loved someone who didn't deserve it. STOP STRESSING OVER INSIGNIFICATE MEN or anybody or thing for that matter and know that there are good men with loving hearts, respectable views on relationships and who have that most important love of all which is their love for God. If he has a true love and relationship with God then he can and will love you truely because his moral standards want allow him to do anything less then the best to you or for you. These are my thoughts, what are yours.

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Look, if the guy or woman you're dating or even by change married to don't show you the same respect in the present of company then there's a problem. If they don't allow you to voice your opinion then there's a problem, if you have to let off steam with others and fear telling them then there's a problem. If you can only be friends with their friends then it's time to lay all your cards on the table and look at what you really have in your possession. There should always be a you in the relationship. Oh I know some say when you get together you give up the I's for us but in the end you should be able to see yourself in the relationship. You should not change who you are and what you stand for to please another human being. It's not good for you or them because in the end you'll hate them and the person you've become for them. So, love yourself enough to stay true to who you are and learn how to give and take in a relationship. Don't diminish who you are for no one. In the end of everything, know that self love is the best love of all.